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How To Make Yourself More Attactive

Nothing is more attractive to a person than a beautiful soul! The calmness of a woman or a man at peace within him blog 2or herself is one of the most enticing of things, it makes a person want to be around their mate more. Another factor to draw a partner closer is an amazing heart felt smile, the purity of spirit that irradiate the Glory of God, and shines His light in a World that needs to find love.

The self controlled demeanor of a woman or man of God that walks in the Spirit and in faith is something admirable. No strife, no gossip, well gathered words that uplift instead of tear down. The kindness of a soul that is concerned about the well being of those around him or her, will make the countenance of this person one that is Christ like, full of the compassion and mercy of God to help bring justice into the life of those in need of it.

“Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.” Psalm 51:10 (NIV)

The soft touch of a tender hand, the sweet whisper of an uplifting word, the kindness of an attentive look, and the positive acceptance of an unexpected smile can bring closer a wounded relationship. It can restore hope in the life of someone that is hurting deep inside.

“Flee the evil desires of youth and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart.  Don’t have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels. And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful.”

2 Timothy 2:22-24 (NIV)

When my husband was gone from our marriage for two and a half months, The Lord advised me to be kind to my husband. I didn’t create strife, even though there were moments when we needed to discuss the situation I always showed him love and respect. I also kept up with my home, and made it into an inviting place. The Lord filled my heart with compassion and mercy for my husband.

blogThe way of the World consists in bashing, nagging, and disrespecting, but the way of the Lord is different. He wants us to live in happiness and harmony with our spouses, and to display constructive attitudes that will also be reflected in the lives of generations to come. It is time to change the cycle of sin and negativity, and clothe ourselves with love.

The most attractive qualities that a man or woman will find attractive are not materialistic things, those things that can be acquired with money will fade and not stand the test of time. In the other hand, a meek and humble spirit that is always willing to serve, and help will make a difference in someone’s life that will make you their lifetime partner.

Of course we need to rely on God to have a successful marriage, and withstand the many temptations and distortions in this fallen world. When God is the source from where everything in our marriages flows the chances of marriage success is 100% guaranteed!

“Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”
Ecclesiastes 4:12

  • Will you take the challenge today and pray that the Lord will increase your love for your spouse?
  • Will you start making changes in the way you talk and relate to your spouse?
  • Will you ask for the Lord to give you a servant’s heart, and inspiration to come up with things that will help your marriage grow?

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Connie Lonon

Connie Lonon

Connie is a Puerto Rico native that moved to the US in spring of 1994. A decision that was in itself a leap of faith. Connie has been recently called to write her experiences in life through the magnifying glass of God's glory. She is a married mother of six amazing children, and one beautiful step daughter. Connie is a self-employed Child Care Provider that worked hard to earn a Certificate of Mastery in Child Development. With humbled passion Connie will share her life stories and grow into the place that God has called her in to show God's love, mercy, and compassion to a world that desperately needs it.
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2 Responses to How To Make Yourself More Attactive

  • Great post! It is true that a woman who walks in the Spirit is much more attractive than a quarrelsome woman. This is an important lesson for our youth to learn. Teens and young adults put a lot of effort into outward appearance, but what matters most is the spirit. And the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit is of great worth in God’s sight.

    • Thank you Jaylin! I agree we need to teach our youth, is very valuable information that will help them in this hard times we live in and their walk with God!

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