Kelly Falardeau

What is your ‘why’?

WhyI asked the question on facebook today, “What is your ‘why’, dig deep… Just saying your “why” is your kids isn’t deep enough.” It was clear by the messages I got, that they didn’t really understand what I was asking. Their answers were more about what makes them happy, but not what propels them forward in life and helps them to make the choices they do. Continue reading “What is your ‘why’?” »

Take the Weight Off Your Arms and Give it Away

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Whenever I come to Africa I am always amazed at the differences in the culture and way of living. Its almost like i just expect everyone to change for me so I don’t have to experience the shock, but that’s not the way it works. When I come here, I realize that life isn’t about me, its about them. I don’t get to say hey, do it my way because that’s the way we do it in Canada and it’s a better way. No, they live their lives just as if I wasn’t there and that’s what makes traveling to Africa so special. Continue reading “Take the Weight Off Your Arms and Give it Away” »

Discover Your Passion – yes that kind of passion

Screen Shot 2013-07-30 at 3.06.00 PMPeople always ask me:

“How did you discover your passion?”

“How did you know you wanted to be a speaker?”

“What did you do to discover your passion?”


My life…

I tried many different things and almost always failed.  I can’t count how many things I’ve tried and failed at, which of course led me to believe I was just a

loser and destined to fail.  I was jealous of people who succeeded and made lots of money.  Many times I wanted to just give up trying.

One time I even admitted to my ex-husband that I truly was a complete FAILURE.

I remember calling my mom and crying and saying “I just want to be a success, why can’t I be successful?”  I believed there was nothing out there for me to

become successful at.  I couldn’t focus and started and quit many… Continue reading →

If the Scar-Faced Girl Can Wear a Bathing Suit, So Can You!

I was stumped…

Kel (more commonly known as Kellie Frazier) said, “Kel (meaning me, Kelly Falardeau), did you write your blog post for the week?” (As business partners we try to take turns writing posts for the Day of Love website)

I said “Nope, will do it tonight.”

But tonight I was a little stumped and not sure what to write about.

So, I asked my Facebook tribe. “Time to write a blog post, what should I write about?”

I got some cool responses, but then one of my friends said, “Hey Kelly – what do you think about writing about wearing a bathing suit in this hot summer weather. I know you’re a burn survivor and I’m not sure if you have scars just on your face or on the rest of your body, so do you wear a bathing suit in public?”

I said “Aha! That’s it!… Continue reading →

Love Differently-Stay Married

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Is There A Book Inside You?

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